art by JESSAMYN GUINANAO
by JESSAMYN GUINANAO
Even those who have never been to Rome have heard or uttered this line at least once in their lives, given that it is a widely used adage with roots dating back to the 4th Century AD. For many, it is simply a quote that has been used extensively in songs, books, letters, plays, and films. For others, it is a lifestyle.
“When in Rome, do as the Romans do.”
However, despite its prominence, not most know of its origin. Does it not intrigue you why Rome and its values were mentioned in particular, out of all cities?
It is all thanks to an early Christian perplexed by the norms in a new church when he traveled from Rome to Milan. Thus, he was advised to follow the customs of his environment if he does not wish to cause or receive scandal. Today, according to contemporary definitions, “The expression is also commonly used in everyday situations where following the status quo seems like the best idea.”
While one must indeed respect and adapt to the practices of the foreign land in which one resides, it is inherently crucial that he exemplifies his own identity so that others recognize him for who he is. Consequently, he gains the opportunity to interchange new perspectives while living in a world interpreted uniquely.
We, the 670,000 Filipinos who live in the United Arab Emirates, can bear witness to this as we co-exist peacefully among the 9 million expatriates here.
As a child of Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs) striving to make a living abroad — what is your take on this? Do you also adhere to the rules of your host country purely for the sake of avoiding scandal? Or do you immerse yourself in the culture of those around you to celebrate its richness and share what you can offer, as what a typical Filipino does?
If you chose the latter, then kudos to you. You are ultimately making a remarkable impact on the UAE’s pursuit of becoming one of the best in the world by 2071.
As we welcome modern evolutions in the country, commemorate its last 50 years, and prepare for what is yet to come after the Golden Jubilee – His Highness Sheikh Mohamed bin Zayed Al Nahyan commends the expatriates in the UAE’s success.
In accordance with the ‘Principles of the 50’ — 10 principles that constitute a framework in chasing the UAE’s ambitions — conforming to the Emirati traditions as an expatriate while also embodying one’s national identity as a Filipino is of massive help to the nation.
As proclaimed in the Eighth Principle: “The value system in the UAE shall remain based on openness and tolerance, the preservation of rights, the consolidation of the rule of law, the preservation of human dignity, the respect of cultures, the strengthening of human fraternity, and the respect of national identity.”
What does this mean? It means that as a community that calls the country their second home, our grandest tribute would be to honor it in the best and most diversified form we can. That is by celebrating the UAE not as visitors to a distant land but as Filipinos.
Filipinos are happy people in every sense of the word. That is evident by the fact that many of all ages love celebrating for any reason. Whenever an occasion arises, no matter how insignificant, Filipinos take the opportunity to hold reunions and family gatherings.
This is not only owing to our cheerful disposition but also the emphasis we place on family bonds. Festivities include not just the immediate family but other relatives, as well: such as uncles, aunties, cousins, and grandparents. Yet, it does not end there because Filipinos consider everyone – including the neighbors – like family.
On the other hand, here in the UAE, the same thing can be said about the Emirati spirit. During events like the UAE National Day, one gets the chance to witness the luminous lights of skyscrapers, majestic fireworks in every carnival, and parades of people proudly bearing the country’s name through national costumes, flag-raising, and their blazing passion for Emirati heritage.
Now, envision the splendor of celebrations when we, Filipinos, open our doors and unite our culture with that of the Emiratis.
Families would then be receiving guests for the traditional handaan in which anyone and everyone get to feast on the scrumptious biryani. The titos and titas would enjoy Karak tea while the children savor the classic shawarma. Ayyala dancers would be everywhere, and people would be filling the air with VIdeoke songs, laughing as the day ends with the exchange of heartwarming presents.
The harmony of cultures will essentially blossom into empowered individuals who are optimistic in honing their extraordinary qualities. Just as Sheikh Abdullah bin Zayed Al Nahyan has expressed, “Such diversity and tolerance are highly valued assets of our communities, enabling everyone to reach their full potential and contribute to a new world of possibilities.”
Therefore, by being confident in our individuality, we not only help ourselves but the entirety of the UAE, as well. Let us allow our diversity to shine through to show our gratitude to the nation. Bear in mind, “Countries cannot rely solely on their own people and resources to drive progress,” Sheikh Mohamed bin Zayed states, “We remain open to all who wish to bring their energy, talent and creativity to our shores to help create a brighter future for all.”
Now is the time for a new phase in history, a new era of development. The world needs fresh insights and adventurous twists. Let us start by adjusting our lens and refining the ‘When in Rome’ mindset. It is time to challenge the status quo. Let us cherish the UAE to the point where we are comfortable in the country, for the country. This is the age in which we begin to say, “When in Rome, Be at Home.”